Thinking About Abortion?

Do you want to have an abortion?
Do you feel like you have to have an abortion?

     I know you may feel that way now, but you should know that you DON'T have to have an abortion. In fact, the very feelings you are feeling about having to have an abortion is the opposite of the pro-choice philosophy that says that it is your right to choose to have one. When you feel like you have to do something you put yourself in a position where you feel there is NO choice. 

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You have found this page because you or someone you know thinks they have to have an abortion. You may be scarred and worried about how the future will turn out if you don't have an abortion. Don't worry we are all scarred when we find out we are pregnant. I know I was and I never thought about having an abortion.


I know it is hard to believe right now but unwanted pregnancy is not the worst thing that could happen to you, not even if you are a teenager.

Maybe you are pregnant because of something horrible happening to you. If so you are a victim and I am deeply sorry for the struggles you have been made to bare. Just think about this though, just because you are a victim, should you  then victimize your baby? Abortion kills basis! Or should we do what winner of The Nobel Peace Prize Dr Martin Luther King Jr said, "We must meet hate with love." What better way to do that then to love your baby?

Pregnancy is one of the best things that can happen to you! You are a Mother NOW and your baby is growing inside of you just waiting to be developed enough to be held in your loving arms. Children are always a gift no matter what!


Sure parenting is challenging sometimes, but it will also be filled with joy and excitement.

I remember when I had just had my baby, when I looked at him I thought, "you have always been here with me, I was just waiting for you to get here." When I had my boys it was like they had always been there, it felt so natural and so right! I know you will feel the same way when you give birth to your baby.

Don't kid yourself we all know where babies come from and you knew that before you got pregnant. I did too, and I thought I was ready. I soon found out that I was not as ready as I thought. This left me kinda scarred at first, just like you may be feeling right now. But I knew I was a Mother already and I did not want to fail. 

I wanted to be a good Mother and there was, and is no better time than right now! I knew this simple truth that Mothering begins at conception. Abortion is not being a good mom or empowered woman, like some may try to tell us. Abortion is not the choice between being a mom, and not being a mom. It is ONLY the choice between being the mother of a DEAD baby or a LIVE one. Every moment is a new one and we can always do the right thing. I pray that you will.

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You may have some people telling you that it's not a baby. Some people may even be telling you that you need to think about your life instead. The truth is, and you may not want to hear the truth, few people do.

If you have an abortion you will be KILLING YOUR BABY! You will be destroying a human life your child! This exact person will never exist again! Your baby is a unique creation, with his or her own unique set of DNA.  I am telling you the truth, you know it in your heart, don't you?

To see what an aborted baby looks like click that link. If you are curious to what your baby looks like right now as he or she is growing in your womb, check out my unborn human development page. Or just click the picture to see more. 

It is truly a miracle, I know you will agree.

I will admit it though, you do need to think about your life. If you have an abortion you will be living the rest of your life knowing that you killed your baby! Are you willing to live that way? If you think abortion will be the end of it you are wrong. You can't just shove something like abortion under the rug! Many woman turn to drugs and promiscuity, which may lead to more abortions. Many woman just can't shake off their abortion or abortions and contemplate suicide. These are just a few of the side effects of abortion. For more information go to The Un Choice about the side affects of abortion and Silent No More Awareness.

I think you get my point.

It is my opinion that every Mother, and or Father (including the whole family) should take care of their own children. If that is not something that you feel you can do there is always adoption
I have also provided you with information about adoption. 

Hey, just because you can't be a perfect parent does not mean that you shouldn't have your baby. In fact, THERE IS NO SUCH THING AS A PERFECT PARENT and a perfect situation to have your baby. Mine was far from perfect! Abortion is not family planning it is ending a life (your baby) that has already been created. It is family killing! 

In Conclusion

I hope you see that NO situation is perfect. Not a reason to kill your baby! Not even a reason to choose adoption, but please know that adoption is a better choice than abortion. At least you will live in peace knowing that YOUR CHILD IS ALIVE and he or she can live to choose for them self, and God only knows what they will accomplish in their life, you don't know, I don't know!

I am sure you agree that it is NEVER OK to take the life of an innocent human person, that would be murder. With that being said, your baby is innocent, he or she did not choose to be conceived. You may have a lot of regrets, hey we all do! But I am here to tell you that we may not be able to turn back what has already been done, but we can always make things right! 

Yesterday is gone, tomorrow isn't here yet, all we have is right now! The future is not here yet, but we are the ones who will create it for ourselves. It can be good or bad, that is up to the choices we make NOW!

I hope my message was made clear and I am confident that you see my point. From woman to woman and mother to mother. If you need more help and support there are many great pregnancy centers that may be able to help you if you need it. 

No matter where you are there has got to be a place you can go to for help. If unfortunately there is not DON'T WORRY you are much stronger than you think and YOU CAN DO THIS!

YOU CAN HAVE YOUR BABY and YOU CAN LOVE YOUR BABY, you will be glad you did!! YOU CAN BE A GREAT MOTHER, and if you make some mistakes then you are like me, and the other billions of mothers that we share this world with.

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God Bless you and your baby!

Sincerely Joanne at Unborn Human Rights

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